It's an extended hiatus and I don't deserve an apology for this, I know. But still, I'm sorry for being so late to write any blog here that it might made you people forget me. I was been planning to write but it never happened. I was so stucked that I could not even frame a single sentence to express my thoughts a few days back. I'm not promising to be consistent here every week but I can assure that I'll be prominent for at least 2 weeks in a month.
So, how you all have been doing? I hope everything is good. Life does not always remain the same. Ups and downs are parts to be cherished and faced. As you all know, I'm a self motivated girl. I don't like myself crying in a corner having no power to confront. Even if I cry sometimes, I get back very quickly. But, from few months I'm boxed into my own thoughts and I'm still finding ways to come out of it. I have started getting scared. I am scared to complete or even start anything. This is strange but yes this is what exactly happening with me. I know I'll get over this very soon. This blog is an example that I'm trying to get back on track. I'll do it all for myself. I can firmly say this.
Let's not take this to an extreme and I should jump on the topic I was ought to share here. Recently, my father met with an unfortune accident and we all were scattered by that. All the fancies and airy things, all turned to dust. Thats when I found myself at the surface level of surviving phase. Adversities are still endless but I trying to cope up with it and I'll come much more stronger than before, I know that. When my father had an accident, I noticed that my parents, who used to fight every day, suddenly started caring for each other. My mother does everything without fear and she is trying to give that comfort to my father. That's where I understand the concept of alignment with souls.
I always thought that love is where nice things are said to you, where you are made to laugh, where you are happy but now my perspective has totally shifted. I can understand now how the soups actually connect. These are beyond those fairytale like romance and blurry expectations rather than it's the kind that reaches deep into the core of your heart and illuminates every corner of your existence. Disagreements may arise because everyone has their own opinion. But what actually matters at the moment of hardships is the person who stays. They doesn't make you realize your past mistakes but they stands with you to help you and become your strength as well as your support. This certainly changed my heart after seeing my parents.
We have a lot of options these days. If we don't like someone, we have the option to choose someone else by just one swipe. This made our life easier but it's somehow difficult to cultivate a concrete bond. Most of our parents are millennials (Gen-Y) or from Gen-X. They know the value of balance, stability and experience based growths in relationship. Instead, if we look at our generation, uncertainty is the biggest problem. Love is beyond that surface level attraction and infatuation.
Suppose, you have someone by your side who is not just your partner, but also a love, a best friend, a spiritual companion, a partner in growth and self discovery. This is the person to whom you can share your grandest dream and your darkest fear and because you know they won't judge you. They will hold your heart with utmost care. You both celebrate your success and supports each other through life's inevitable challenges. You both being gentle to each other's wounds because you know if you resolve together then only you'll evolve together.
I mostly felt at the beginning when I'm with the person whosoever it is, my friend, boyfriend, cousins or anyone. I sense that there is something different here and it is not right. Human body gives sirens signalling misalignment. When somebody wants to change you, you'll ll sense that this person does actually not value my raw self. If they make you feel that your are not complete without them then let me tell you the real truth. You are already complete. Nobody has that missing part of the puzzles of your life. Nobody has the power to make you feel full or complete. The real partner may expand you. They'll not hold your hand to pass the ocean rather than they'll stand with you. In the presence of this person, you'll feel truly seen, heard and valued the just way you are.
True love isn't always about red roses, Saturday night dates, expensive black box gifts and always a right word to say. I thought it was kissing in the rain and grand gestures. However, It's not need to be that cinematic or glamorous always. It's essence lies in the simplicity where two souls can talk to eachother sitting on their couch for hours and hours. For me, it's always being brutally honest with my partner. It's about tears from laughter and tears from joy. It's those late nights after a tough day with zero makeup and messy hair. It's about accepting eachother's flaws. It's being firmly committed to your person. Always and always. 🤍✨️
Have faith in universe. The right people will come into your life while those who aren't meant to stay gracefully fade away. 🫶🏻
So, don't worry, my friend. Trust that life is going to unfold it's beautiful aspects, just the way it should. 🤍✨️
Catch you all later,
Toodles.
